Oily skin tips!

I have very oily skin, even my eyelids get oily! ☹ Any suggestions for good skin care, foundations, maybe even primers that will help conceal this? At the end of the day my foundatation is so oily, caked up and set into my pores and lines. I touch my face and my foundation can slide right off. primers I have used sometimes make it worse where my makeup isnt even on my nose or forhead after some hours and all separated. ugh! HELP!