Baby's Health - Rules

Ugh ok sorry have to rant. My mom is annoyed that I don't want my niece (other nieces and nephew on husband's side have to follow the same rules) to touch my daughter's hands (unless she has gloves on) or face. My niece is two and gets sick but then actually lies about not being sick. My sister works at our local children's hospital (it gets the worst illnesses and last chance cancer patients) so my sister asks her if she is sick at any little sign so she just immediately says I'm fine. But she gets sick pretty frequently. I can not get the Tdap vaccine so I want my nieces and nephew to not touch her hand or face. She will be a winter baby so she will have socks or footie onesies. I am fine with them touching her where she is clothed. Her arms, legs, and feet are totally fine but she can put her hands in her mouth. Obviously they will need to wash their hands too. I'm just a FTM and my sister got to dictate everything with her baby but my niece is the first baby on both sides. My daughter will not be. I told my mom that once she gets her vaccines I'll start to relax on the rules. My mom literally said well you don't want to piss people off. I do not care if I piss people off. My daughter's health is my first priority.