Opinions Please!

Hey ladies! I need some opinions or guidance. I’m 14dpo and AF is 5 days late. I took 2 tests, one that was 9dpo and another at 11dpo. The first looked like a vvvvfl and the second looked negative. The past few days I’ve had a little bit of light brown spotting when I wipe but that’s it! For the past 2 weeks ago, I’ve had very minor cramps, not like period cramps, though. I’ve been off birth control pills since I finished the pack in late September. I’m not really sure what’s going on... Should I test? Am I over-reacting? Or does this have to do with going off birth control? I keep waiting for AF to show and she won’t!! Anyone have this happen?