Being with a man who don’t want to marry🤨 idk I️ just feel like, why am I️ here?!😔😢

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Idk what to do! I️ love him but when I️ start talking about our future and getting married he shuts down like I’m not good enough or something. I️ take care of our children while he works. I️ work as well but I️ feel like I️ love him more then he loves me. I️ want to be with him but idk if it’s the same. We’ve been at this for 5 years on and off and he just act like it’s the worst thing to think of. Do you think he’s cheating too?

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He could just be scared of that commitment. Either way, I feel like is you truly love someone, marriage should never be out of the picture. Sorry you have to go through that 😕

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If u truly want to be married then don't settle wit sum one who don't want that or show no interest even in the conversation cuz u don't deserve that. N can I ask how old r u? I asked cuz u mentioned a promise ring and I believe with ur situation that would be a "shut u up" ring since u mentioned he isn't interested in marriage. U don't deserve that boo.

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I don’t think you should discuss it with him anymore. If he wanted to marry you than he would ask you. Some men and women just don’t desire marriage. I think it’s something that has to be discussed in the beginning of the relationship so nobody’s time is wasted. I knew I wanted to get married so I’ve told all of the men I dated in the past that if we aren’t working towards marriage don’t waste my time. The last thing you want is to pressure him into marriage and you end up in an unhappy marriage. The goal is to be happily married and not just married (sorry this is so long lol).

Being with a man who don’t want to marry🤨 idk I️ just feel like, why am I️ here?!😔😢

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