Gender reveal, shower or both?

I'm expecting my second baby. We didn't do a gender reveal party for my first but I think they look like so much fun. I had a baby shower (for men and women) for my first and don't really need a ton of gifts now (but I certainly wouldn't turn them away). For a reveal party I wouldn't want gifts because the guests wouldn't know the sex and I hate green and yellow. Can't decide if I should just do one party or both. Both seems excessive for a second baby but if people want to give gifts then a shower is better but then I can't do my fun reveal.  Help!!