Gonna lose my mind

So my husband is awesome, sometimes. lol we've been married for almost 5 months and together almost 3 years. I'm pregnant with our second and our oldest is 16 almost 17 months. HE. NEVER. HELPS. AROUND. THE. HOUSE. I'm a stay at home mom so I do the majority of the house work but sometimes I don't feel like doing the dishes or folding laundry. Yeah I know I'm awful. But holy shit I'm about to lose my shit lol anytime I confront him he thinks "I'm attacking him" real annoying. So there's my little rant and if anyone has advise for me that would be great because I'm literally about to lose my shit with him. Lol

Update:

We talked about it last night and I cried and he actually listened to what I had to say and he understood how I feel about everything and hopefully it'll start getting better. 🙌🏻