Anyone else have a bf / husband that

My husband and I never used protection , only once but he took it off while in the act and said he didn't like it . . So we never used anything and after 2 years I finally got pregnant ( we planned it ) but now that I have my newborn I don't want to get pregnant right away maybe 2 years from now yes but not anytime soon so I keep telling him how once were able to have sex again that he needs fo wear protection and he just tells me he's not going to wear anything that he will just " pull out " 

I'm breast feeding so I can't take the birth control pill and I refuse to get an implant or other forms of birth control because i'm scared of the effects people say they have .