Frustrated? **updated

**update: boyfriend called me today at lunch and told me we were trading cars (He has a 2014 Passat and I have a beat up old infinity that we use for messy day trips like going to the beach) - he wanted to go to the beach to meditate he said he was “so over today... so over it.” So to all who said it was a work issue you win the gold star.

I asked what was wrong but he was still really defensive about it so I’m gonna let him decompress and then ask him when I get home tonight about it.

I’m probably over thinking this and tell me if I am. Last night I was kissing my boyfriends neck trying to get him in the mood and he didn’t seem into it. So, I say goodnight and roll away. Then he comes up behind me and starts getting me in the mood which I was - so we do the deed, but towards the end of it he started getting kinda rough; rough-er then usual. So once we’re done I kinda joke and ask “What was that?” To which he responds “Just frustrated-“ I ask about what and he continues with “I don’t know, just frustrated. Frustrated sex. I wanted to f*** ur brains out. Frustrated.”

How am I supposed to take that? Cause right now I’m taking it as: doing the deed isn’t doing it for him like it used to. Or that he was upset that he “made the first move” when I could have done that I just read the signals wrong... help. I’m lost.