Venting....TTC

Disclaimer: I love my husband so very much. He wants so badly to be a dad and I want nothing more for hum as well! However, he feels I'm pressuring him to BD 3 days in a row when it's the fertile Window. Meanwhile, I'm over here thinking...Hello, do you realize how much I do the other 32-36 days?! (I have longer cycles.) I track and test using opk's for 8-10 days (since my cycles are also irregular). It's getting to a point where TTC isn't fun for either of us, but we want to be parents, and we also don't want this to drive a wedge between us. In so many ways, TTC has brought us closer, but today, it feels the opposite. Ugh! Thanks for letting me vent!