Bachelor parties

hey you guys I just wanted to know how do you all feel about bachelor parties for your husbands or soon to be husbands...im with a guy that I want to marry n we aren't even engaged yet lol but the thought of a bachelor party n strippers worry me because I don't trust his friends or brother I feel like they will pressure him into doing something he wouldn't normally do especially since there's liquor involved 😒 I know this is too soon to be worried about this lol but what are your opinions about bachelor parties n how did you get passed it if you guys are passed that n how are you sure that your husband didn't sleep with a stripper or something at the bachelor party...i am an overthinker so I worry myself to death a lot 😔