Vbac?? I need advice

Ladies I just found out November 12'th that I'm pregnant

Buuuuuuut....... I'm scared..

With my first and only delivery I was going for all natural birth!

Nothing went as planned, my charts were shooting like crazy I was having contractions like I was 9cm but every time the doctor would check i was literally only about 2cm which confused the doctor. He saw that my blood pressure was super high and the babies heart rate was so low so he got me an Emergency csection..

I want to try for a natural birth once again but I'm scared that I'm not "strong" enough.

I don't work out hardly ever did in my life and I feel like maybe not being in shape had something to do with it?

I want to start doing lower body exercises to strengthen my pelvic floor, but I'm just worried something might go wrong again. Should I forget about it entirely and go for a scheduled csection? What If I can't have any more kids after that?? So many questions..

I'll talk to my doctor ALL about my concerns. I just want to hear your experiences and/or advice ..other than talking to my doctor

Thank you bunches 💕