Would you go as far as divorce if your DH went to a strip club ?

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DH went to a strip club ?" /> So ladies... I know strip clubs are common conversation. I know some people believe that if your husband doesn't cheat or puts his hands on you your marriage is worth fighting for. But for some of y'all would y'all consider divorce? If you found out while you were at work your husband took a trip to the strip club and tried to lie about it? Then apologized and told the truth off course ? Yea it happened to me lol he hadn't pulled something like this in 2 years ... And I can't lie it crosses my mind... I guess because of how disappointed I was

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I would wan to go with him. Neither of us has been to one.

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Everyone is so uptight!!! If there is trust in a relationship he should ask for his partner to go with him, I would!!!

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I'm not married but if my boyfriend went then I'd break up with him. If I was married and he went, then things just wouldn't be good for a while. I don't believe in divorce. You should know someone well enough by time you get married to know you want to be with them forever no matter what.

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I have personally been to a strip club and have friends that are strippers and do not approve. A lap dance is really just like dry sex and a lot of girls will offer sex for more money it is disgusting and degrading. 
​I do agree that your husband probably went due to peer pressure but that doesn't make it ok you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel about it

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Im lucky my fiance doesnt like strip clubs. I wouldnt get mad or divorce if he did tho.

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I'm a male, personally I don't care for the clubs, they are pretty nasty. I told my fiancé and she was surprised. All depends on your thought. But first talk to him about.

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I would honestly consider a divorce, because I feel like strip clubs are disgusting and innappropriate and a form I cheating. (Luckily my husband understands and feels the same way, he didn't even Go to a strip club for his bachelor party) 
​but hypothetically if he did go to one, It would take a lot to regain my trust. We would have to go to counseling and he would have to hugely make it up to me somehow.

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My boyfriend dad use to do it all the time and once my bfs mom said she didn't care it took the fun out of it and he stopped going. He likes to stir trouble so when she didn't let it bother her he didn't have fun anymore. Also I don't get the appeal if I was a guy I would buy a prostitute because if I wanted to watch a naked girl I would watch porn least then I could have fun with my junk without getting kicked out for doing stuff

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Youre married. Marriage is forever. It's not "oh you messed up so now we get divorced" Look, he probably lied about it because he knew you'd flip and think about a divorce. He probably went because te people he was with were going and went too. Have you ever been to a strip club or are you basing your thoughs on what happens in movies? They're not that bad. And I know he lied but it's not like he cheated on you. You need to fight for your marriage, not be so quick to throw it away. Just my opinion. Then again I don't know your hubby or you.

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Go with?!? Not to b rude... But Why would u encourage your man to lust after other women?!?

Would you go as far as divorce if your DH went to a strip club ?

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