am i the only one??

I keep reading post of womens husband's/ partners wanting sex but it's the opposite for me :( I have two kids under two, and he works from Monday to Saturday and I'm watching kids 24/7 even on the Sundays, my daughter is going through a stage and nothing will work so she is up from 7 in the morning to 12 at night and my son is up at 5, I get no sleep! But I'm still sending him pictures, still trying to sext talk when kids are asleep ( he has alot of free time at work ) I try so many different things, he only wants it when he wants it and I give up :(