When should i test?

AF was due 11/13 and still no sign of her. Ive had super sore breast horrible cramps and backache and super duper hungry 24/7 which isnt like me at all. Also ive been so moody like if an even somewhat sad song comes on i start crying or something like that ive just had super intense emotions. I tested the day of but it was negative so my fiance told me to wait a few days but how long exactly should i wait to test again. Im super excited, we’ve been trying for about 14 months so i really hope this is it.