Hey fellow mommies I have a very serious question to ask.

This is going to be kind of long but I’ll try to make it as short as possible.

So I was dating someone who was separated from his wife, I ended up pregnant. After I told him I was pregnant he decided that he wanted to work things out with his wife for the sake of their twin daughters. He is now telling everyone that it is our mutual friends baby and he plans for him and his wife to fight for full custody and adopt baby after it’s born. Mind you I’m not putting baby up for adoption... the only reason why he is telling everyone this is so then his marriage doesn’t get ruined and so our mutual friends marriage doesn’t get ruined. I’ve been telling everyone the truth only cuz that’s the right thing to do in my opinion. His way of thinking is to either have me sign away my rights so his wife can adopt baby or he wants to sign over his rights so she doesn’t leave him. With keeping in mind he will be paying child support for this baby no matter what until it’s 18.

I guess my question is what is everyone’s opinion on what I should be doing cuz all my friends and family are saying screw what he thinks and then i have some people saying I shouldn’t be so harsh.... so please help me!