Is husband confused?

So my husband and i haven’t been on speaking terms since yesterday today he has been trying to kiss ass all day he said some terrible things to me last night like he wishes he we’re drunk so he wouldn’t have to deal with me and he regrets the day he meet me but when i say something like then if you’re so unhappy lets get a divorce i took my rings off and he flipped started yelling at me saying he paid so much money for it (mind you he don’t even wear his ring so why flip out on me taking mine off )anyways long story short today he tried making up but I’m still hurt for all the mean things he said so he gets mad again and leaves the house a few hours pass and i call him because snap is showing me where he at so he says he with his co worker/ friend this friend is gay well this guy declared himself to my husband when we first meet 6 years ago he told him that he can no longer hangout with us because he was jealous of me seeing us together was making him jealous so my husband is at his house right now hanging out without me i asked him why he said because he didn’t feel like coming home and argue with me anymore and didn’t want to drive home but then again why drive to his house i mean i know they work together but its just weird that he didn’t take our daughter and left by himself he always takes our daughter every where and i mean every where he never leaves the house without her . I know he needs a little breather am i over reacting I don’t know what to think he could of gone to his bro in laws house that live 10min away from us but instead drove 25 min to this guys house. Advice please OH i been trying to call him but he turned off his phone 🤔