Alabama men (I don't get them)

Is anyone here from Alabama or know anyone from there or even dated a few of them?

I don't get them. Every men from Alabama I've dated are extreme gentleman, but then afterwards, they just disappear from the face of the earth. Why be nice to me if you're not that into me? Lol. Be honest upfront, don't just become cold afterwards, disappearing, leaving me to wonder what went wrong.

Any help