SO has no say.
Long story short I've been with my SO since Hs and it's been and emotional roller coaster ... we both have graduated hs and I'm a year older ( 21 in December ) he's 19 . Anyway , he thinks he has a say in where I'll be going to school. He lives with his parents and goes to a community college that is closer to his area & I want to go to a college that is a lot closer to me but he insist that I should go to his college but I tell him no because he only wants me to go to his school so he can know where I'm at the entire time and because he has attachment / insecurity issues. I tell him I don't have to go where he tells me because it's my future & regardless I won't have the same schedule as him .
I would also legit have to go from school in the morning to work at night Monday-Friday because I don't live with my parents I pay rent and a car alongside other bills.
I don't want to see toot my own horn but I'm a lot more mature and realistic about these type of situations than he is.
Ps: he wants to get me pregnant and I'm not ready.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.