dating a quiet guy

im 20 and ive always been the type of girl to talk. alot, my current boyfriend is kind of the opposite, hes not shy but kinda quiet around strangers, he doesnt talk that much bc he says he likes listening better until theres more of a bond of confidence (he isnt like this at all when hes with me), the problem is, my family has been bugging me lately about it, that he doesnt talk and that i am part of that too since i dont really get my bf involved with my family, i dont see that as a problem AT ALL since i dont really get involved with my family either, i tend to be more of the outsider but right now theyre literally pressuring me about it and ive been thinking of breaking up, i dont think its right to go and tell my bf "oh my family doesnt like u bc u dont talk", i mean he greets them and says goodbye, he replies when somebody asks him a question, he doesnt even have a resting bitch face, he just doesnt talk like my family is used to talk, i dont know what to do, i now feel bad for trying to bring him to the house knowing deep down my family doesnt like him