I just need to vent for a second

So my husband and I welcomed our little girl into the world in December of last year. It has been the best and fastest 11 months of my life. Even though its been great, our sex life is at an all time low. I’m back to my pre pregnancy weight and stopped breastfeeding around 9 1/2 months, but still sex is the very last thing on my mind. Jason Momoa can’t even get me going so you know this is a real problem. My husband has tried to be understanding (and let’s be clear he’s not going without) but lately he has started guilt tripping me big time. It really pisses me off because I’m a fixer and I can’t fix this. I work full time, handle the accounting for his business, volunteer, and still carve out time to be at home with my child most nights and weekends. He’s helpful with our daughter but definitely not around the house. O did I mention we have 4, yes 4, huge ass dogs as well so cleaning is a never ending project. Most of his spare time is spent doing what he wants to do. Whether it be hunting, hanging with friends, or kayaking he does what he wants. All that to say, how am I supposed to get in the damn mood when all I do is some form of work. I don’t react well to guilt trips so it’s really hard for me to not completely lose my shit on him. I ordered some stupid herb that’s supposed to help increase sex drive, but I honestly don’t know what I’ll do if it doesn’t work. If anyone has any suggestions (other than a crotch shot in my husbands general direct) I’m totally open to them. Thanks!