Hi everyone! So my boyfriend is 6'4 and I'm 4'11 lol so you can already tell where this is going. So i lost my virginity to him and the first time there was blood everywhere. He fingered me for the first time. We honestly couldn't get him to fit anywhere inside of me because i was so tight and finally we got so fed up and i just stuck half of it in and screamed into his neck. Then 4 weeks later, we had sex again, he fingered me at first, this time however, we got to get his whole thing inside of me and i bled again during it. I'm not on birth control but I'm planning on getting on it next week but we use condoms. When is the bleeding supposed to stop? Is this normal? Surprisingly, he doesn't get weird about the blood being all over him which is a good thing.