The big ‘O’ or not?

Hello,

So I’ve read lots of stories and articles on Home insemination and December will be our third cycle or trying

Previous two cycles we’ve tried the syringe and cup method with no ‘O’ as I had read quite a few negative things about it that it could drown the sperm and so on....

This month we are trying the soft cup method so my question is do we try having an orgasm after the soft cup is in place or not?

Any success stories with/without the big ‘O’