Rant! Men 😈😬

So, background first. Single stay at home mother, new to the area, online college student. So I don't get out very often, even more rarely by myself. For that reason, I joined eHarmony 😒 first mistake. I got matched with this guy that lives 2 hours away (remember that detail). So we start chatting, eventually exchange phone numbers and Snapchat. This dude seems awesome. Great job, nice vehicle, a little awkward but very sweet. Perfect manners and etc.. So he calls last night and says hey I'm close to your area (still over an hour away) visiting family and can I swing by for a bit and hang out. I said sure but just remember my kid is asleep down the hall so it's not like we can do much. He says that's totally fine and he just wants to meet. To shorten this up, I DIDN'T hook up with him, we watched movies and kissed goodnight. He didn't leave until 3 am and I thought it was a great evening... Y'all that boy drove 2 hours thinking he was gonna get laid. So today goes by and he just vanished, ignoring my snap and text.I do a little snooping on FB and his supposed ex... ISNT AN EX. THEY ARE ALL OVER EACH OTHERS PAGE! I'm so pissed off it's not even funny.. like seriously dude. 2 hours is a hell of a long way to drive and waste diesel fuel just to cheat.