Should I say I love you first

We’ve been really good friends for a year and a couple of months (he’s basically my best friend and we’ve pretty much been there for each other since the beginning). He’s said he’s loved me a couple of times through out our friendship, and I pretty much felt the same way but was too shy to admit it. He’s the first guy I have ever really been into. I pretty much let my mom know I’m into him, and I talk to her about him all the time (she even randomly asks me how he’s doing). I’ve had a couple of crushes but not to the point where I’d like to date them or even bring up to my mom. I’m really open to him about my life at home, and the situations I have faced within my life. We are dating now, and I really want to let him know how much he means to me (I always do), but I kind of want to let him know I love him. I’m just worried that it is too soon. I know feelings are feelings and you don’t choose how you feel. But this is my first actual relationship, and I know sometimes you sort of just get all wrapped up in the whole idea of dating. Also, like would I put him in an uncomfortable position. Or should I just go for it, because I feel like if he genuinely cares for me he won’t feel uncomfortable at all.

I’d like some kind thoughts pls 🤗

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