Bladder Control Issues

I know this is probably a topic most people don't want to talk about but I have a feeling I'm not the only one that's experiencing this. I'm 5 weeks pp and I still don't have bladder control. The moment I feel that I have to go I run to the restroom otherwise I feel like I'll pee in my pants. In fact, the other day my husband made a joke and I couldn't hold it and I ended up peeing on myself. Anyone else having this problem? I know kegels are supposed to help but I can't even find those muscles. Help, anyone?