I’ve been with my partner for 9 years. We are both 39 yrs old. We’ve had our ups and down but stayed together. Going straight to the point; I am so unhappy with my sex life. To the point that I be thinking about other man and I don’t want to. I love him very much and I’m scare one day some name would come out my mouth....

We don’t have sex anymore!!!!!! Is like ones a month. (He do always get me to orgasm but...) and I’m a very active woman. I don’t know what to do. I just wanted to spill it out here cuz’, this is driving me crazy to the point of sometimes treating like crap.