so as i was growing up, i wasn’t hit or screamed at every day. i was hit pretty hard often but not everyday. i was emotionally abused for a fact. but sometimes my parents would hit me badly but didnt leave a mark so i never thought i was being abused. but other times i had a hand print on my face that lasted a week and i had to miss school and i’ve been hit so hard my ears were bleeding and my dad gave me a black eye. but i don’t know if i was abused. i’m confused because it didn’t happen every day.