New Gyno and Discussing Fertility Options

Victoria • 29 y/o. Diagnosed with PCOS 2014. Married 2012. Mortgage Underwriter.
So my previous doc closed her practice a month before my yearly and also the appointment that I was finally going to discuss fertility options. Now I have a whole new Dr and she has never met me, spoken to me, seen my girl parts, or held my hand through previous struggles but I have to discuss the very private details of my infertility with this stranger if I ever hope to have children.
​I'm a little overwhelmed and stressed and anxious and nervous to say the least. I just want her to act like she cares and not mention anything about my weight. 
​Any tips about what I should expect her to do or say? Is there anything I should do or say?