This is how we do not communicate

He does not give 2 shits about our relationship anymore. He won’t even communicate to tell me what’s going on

I’m. Always the one to try to communicate not sure how much more I am able to try. We have a family together. But when we’re fighting he holds a grudge for weeks. When he is in a bad mood he can never apologize. He just tells me I start all the fights. I love him and don’t want to be without him but I feel like a puppy begging for his love and attention, I don’t know how to stop caring so much