I need some attention too

So I just need to get this out somewhere so my boyfriend and I are sexually active have been but it seems every time I see him he just wants a blowjob or a handjob and then hes done for the night and just leaves me hanging I’m not saying I need sex everytime I see him but I’m kind of getting tired of always pleasing him and getting nothing and I don’t know how to bring this up without starting an argument I love my boyfriend which we have yet to say to each other but I’m definitely starting to get sexually frustrated and am starting to kind of feel used