*Rant* TTC

Okay so in my mind I have been playing scenario’s about how to tell people that SO & I will be expecting (Of course after me inseminate and get BFP first lol) So anyways. SO is 28 & I’m 21. I will be the one carrying due to a conversation we had etc.. So besides that it’s just people in general at our job (We work same company, different location 2 streets apart lol) they know we have been dating for a while. And we talking earlier about it as I came into her job & another employee asked “Are you guys married”, “How are you going to do it”, “Are you going to have sex with a guy”?? And things of that sort. FIRST OFF you do NOT have to sex with a guy to get pregnant. You have IUI, IVF, AI, etc... Like come on, sex is not the main object in every case!! So now it has drawn me back to the point that I just want to wait till I have a huge stomach and pop the baby out to be like yea we had a child using donor sperm. Thank you I know he/she is cute. And no you are not welcome to see them or hold them 🙌🏽🙌🏽 Like I already told my mom and she is HAPPY as can Be 🤗 She already has 5 grandkids and still wants more lol. I’m just like I don’t feel like all the negative 👎🏽 vibes, because this is an happy moment for us!!