I'm okay with cheating?

Question

So my boyfriend may have cheated on me. Everyone's talking about it and saying that I look dumb for staying w him
I still don't know the truth but a lot of people including those who were there think that he did
I asked him about it twice and he stuck to his story, didn't budge and some stories add up to his
I asked again and he told me we won't work if I dont trust him and he's not sure if he's ready for another relationship if this is how it's gonna be
Anyway I agreed to forget about it and I haven't felt super sad or anything about it and I don't know why?
I was at first but .. did he manipulate me out of my feelings by mentioning a possible breakup ?
Am I really afraid to lose him?
Should I be angry?
I don't get it
Update:
This shit haunts me on a day to day basis. I've fallen harder for this guy but every time we get closer all I can think of is him with her and I don't even know if it happened or not. This is the worst feeling ever. How can I get over this ?

Answer

You should feel however you feel. There is no “correct” way of feeling because everyone is different. If it has happened recently then give it time feelings can change, you might find in a few weeks or months even that you become angry over this cheating suspicion. These things take time, do what you feel is best and if that’s staying with him than that’s your choice, this however doesn’t mean that later on if you get feelings of anger or sadness that you cannot change your mind.

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well you don't know for sure if he did or didn't, if he did you'll find out the truth always comes out lol.. I've had my suspicions and my boyfriend told me if I can't trust him then there's no point in being together because our relationship won't last if there's no trust ..and I also was afraid to lose him so I tried not to think about things because of that but then I started thinking why am I afraid to lose him if he wasn't doing anything wrong then why make such a threat sometimes it's the guilty ones who walk away.. I've asked if he ever cheated on me of course he says no not a lot of people would admit it..but even though I have suspicions I know he wouldn't but then again you never know.. it's a tough situation 😕..

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If you don’t trust him, there’s no point in being with him. There’s a HUGE difference between being in an open relationship and having someone cheat on you. You’re worth more, you deserve someone who is honest with you. Cheating is something that is hidden, it’s dangerous, emotionally and physically, you could catch something. Don’t be so worried about you losing him. If he’s saying things like he’s not sure if he’s ready to be in a serious relationship, you should take a step back and let him figure it out - you don’t deserve to be strung along until he makes his mind up.

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I'm okay with cheating?

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