Why is everybody yelling at the pregnant lady?

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Is it just me or aren't people supposed to be a little bit nicer to pregnant women? I'm not staying I want to be carted around by 4 muscle men but just cut me a break some times

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I'd like to be carted around by four muscle men, just for a day or two 😉.

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No were supposed to be treated the same as we were went we weren't pregnant. Though I have experienced people commenting on my weight and saying things like "you're still pregnant?!" Even though I have like 6 weeks to go. Definitely rude and uncalled for.

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I totally get what you're saying. It's not like I expect special treatment... Just some random kindness is nice. The other day I went to the grocery store just to get some tomatoes for dinner and I got in line behind this lady with two kids and a giant cart full of stuff. She took one look at me with my one item and big belly and told me to go in front of her. It was so nice- I thanked her like twenty times and she was just like "I've been there."  That's what I'm talking about- little kindnesses that can make life just a little better and easier.

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I totally get what you're saying. Pregnancy has changed my body so much that I'm clumsy and always sore. I can't go up and down stairs without almost throwing my back out. Standing too long hurts my back. Haha, the list goes on! I understand my SO works all day and he wants to come home to nice amazing house and he usually does. I always clean and do the dishes and cook for him so he can come home and relax. But it doesn't matter how much I do because he'll always find something wrong. Everytime I say I'm sore he's like 'welcome to the club'. Uhh, excuse me? I have your child inside of me and was vomiting until a week ago, after all the thing I'm doing for you you won't massage me as good as I can? It just pisses me off because my hands hurt too and I still massage his whole body with no complaints but when I ask he's like no I can't really do it. I know I sound like a total brat but he just doesn't understand how much I already do for him and how I know and appreciate how much he does for us. Anyway, rant over. I just would like him to treat me special sometimes instead of me treating him special 24/7 and me getting nothing.

Why is everybody yelling at the pregnant lady?

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