Should I give my bf back the things he bought me?

Okay, so I walked into a convo my bf was having with his friend about me, his friend said. "Now you can do this with ___ (me)" and his comment was "eh, I give but get nothing in return" I was hurt. I always ask what he wants but he always says "I got it" and won't tell me and now I just wanna give it all back 😭 we are long distance so it's complicated to send things and especially when all he does it play video games so I can never buy him anything he'll enjoy