What do I do?

Lex

So the other day i stretched my ear with tapers(worst mistake) to 22mm from 19mm. It was throbbing but I️ thought it was normal. I left it on for the night but the next day noticed it was way too swollen. I took it out, it was crusty, pussing, and slightly torn in the inside so I did my research. I’ve been soaking it in lukewarm water with salt since last night and put two sizes smaller plug because I read that you need to keep the jewelry in the excessive tissue won’t form. Today it looks like it has gotten better, but it looks so nasty with the plug in :( I️ can’t tell whether it’s a blowout and/scar tissue but it looks like my ear is swallowing my plug lmao. Should I just leave out the plug?