I feel like a failure

I had a bad semester. The first two semesters I maintained a 3.5 GPA. This semester I failed 4 classes. I am petitioning for late withdrawal . I went through a traumatic experience with leaving an abusive relationship and then getting kidnapped by my ex. I completely stopped doing school half way through the semester. My boyfriend is really disappointed in me and might leave me because the incident happened in March and says I should be over it. He says that he thought my standards were higher and that I should have never failed this semester and that I'm just being lazy. The late withdrawal will be accepted (because of how much evidence) and the grades won't affect my transcripts after this. But I feel like such a complete failure and I'm disgusted with myself. What school wants to take someone with 5 withdrawals?