To test? Or not to test? 🤔

Little back story, I got my Mirena taken out at the end of September didn’t get a period until the second week of November for the first time in almost 7 years. Before AF came then I had sore boobs and fatigue. Now AF was due again on the 7th but hasn’t shown her face? I have had some similar pre AF symptoms, I have sore boobs, mild fatigue but now my acne is going crazy, Im irritable like no other, I have been getting head aches randomly, and have had some light cramping. My husband and I have been ttc since my Mirena was taken out. I’m scared to test because I don’t want to see a negative! What should I do??