Did you marry young, and get a divorce for other reasons aside from abuse/cheating?

Question

I started dating my husband when I was 15, engaged at 18, and married at 21. I’m 23 and now wonder if I didn’t give myself enough time to date. Maybe I settled with this. I love him, but the thought is there. I have worked with men, and it was like I was wondering “what if” because I was so compatible with them after conversation. I feel that I am not the happiest I can be but I made vows..I’m clearly a much different person than I was when I was 15, and 18. We both grew into different people.

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I met my first love when I was 17 and still to this day wish I hadn't told myself I was too young to fall in love. My heart still skips a beat when I think about him 20 years later.

And 20 years later, I know that as long as they're not addicted or abusive most guys are pretty much the same. A thousand dicks couldn't make up for ONE guy who rubs your back before bed and gets up to make you soup when you're sad, even if he's not feeling well.

Don't make a mistake out of curiosity that costs you something most women climb over a thousand dudes trying to find ;)

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Get those thoughts under control. Everyone has what ifs. You made the commitment and you have to try to work through it if there isn't abuse or cheating. Do what you can to make the marriage work. If it's not working and you're having those thoughts it's likely that you are the problem. Corrupt thoughts come from a corrupt heart and your husband can sense distance and could be distancing himself because of it. Remember why you decided to marry him in the first place. Talk to someone who is happily married for a long time and ask for advice.

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I started dating my husband at 18, engaged at 19 and still married at 21, my husband is older then me. We have had our ups and downs but I know that for a marriage to work it take a TWO people. If you want your marriage to work you have to stop having one foot out the door.

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i got married young.  he was, and is a good guy, but i was able to walk all over him and i needed someone stronger than that.

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Yup! I got married too young and it was a shitsbow.
I should have waited and enjoyed my youth.  We divorced after one year

Did you marry young, and get a divorce for other reasons aside from abuse/cheating?

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