This doesn't have to do with the pregnancy other than I'm having pretty strong emotional opinions about it. Curious for some other perspectives... He'll be going to a bachelor party sometime in the next several months. I just asked him tonight if it will be a stripper kind of deal and he says he thinks so. All I can think of is that I'll be home with a new baby and our toddler, all post partum body, and he'll be enjoying gorgeous naked women dancing on him. This makes me feel terrible. He didn't even do that type of thing for his bachelor party (they went camping), so I've never had to deal with this before. Thoughts?