A rock and a hard place

So my friend just told me she’s pregnant and told me to keep all my daughters clothes so I could give them to her when she done with them but I plan to have another in 2 years and though the genders could be different I wasn’t done having kids and I don’t wanna be like no but I don’t wanna give it up yet because I have plenty of baby years left and my mom says I only get one baby shower and I had mine. I don’t wanna give everything away to have the same gendered baby in 2 years