Threesome... did it ruin your relationship?

Question

It’s a fantasy... I think it would be so much fun to bring another girl in the bedroom, but I am an over thinker and a jealous person.  I’m worried that it will ruin our relationship.  Anyone have any experience with this?  How did it go?

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If you're a jealous person, I wouldn't do it. You're either going to end up upset in the middle of things when your spouse is paying attention to the other person or replaying it over and over in your head afterwards, wondering if they preferred the other person or if they think about them now. I think if you're not 100% sure about it and have a set list of boundaries/rules to go by for the encounter, you should probably just not do it.

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I don't understand the point of a threesome when you're in a relationship. To me it's for people who are single, so there can't be jealousy or drama or any strings attached. I  could NEVER sit there and watch my boyfriend be with another woman sexually, much less be turned on by it! And what happens if he accidentally gets her pregnant. No thanks, to each their own but it's a no for me 🤷🏻‍♀️

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it didn't for me but I'm not jealous and neither was my bf at the time. we were both interested in it. i don't know this for a fact or anything, but i would think that the type of 3sum can make a big difference as well. for us, we did it with a lesbian girl who was open minded. in the end he didn't really even do much with her and i was definitely the main focus. i think that if you're a jealous person and have doubts, just don't do it. it's not worth the risk. if you do it, it's important to discuss what the expectations or rules are. additionally, every person involved has the power to stop what's going on. as with all sex, consent by any party can be rescinded at any time. in a 3sum, that means that every one should stop. i say this bc ive heard stories of like say the girlfriend changes her mind part of the way through but the guy keeps going.

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Ruined me and my bff relationship. It went soooo bad. If you do it, do it with someone you dnt know and make sure you and your man are 100 percent sure. Be comfortable, secure, and have fun.

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You basically answered your own question by stating that you are an over-thinker and a jealous person. Don’t do it. Keep it a fantasy.

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ive had single 3sums. 
if youre jealous id strongly advise against it

Threesome... did it ruin your relationship?

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