Sex sequence

Hi

I am married and have a 9 month old

I was really shy untill my marriage , i never had proper discussion with anyone related to sex

And my hubby was book worm so he is sme way ,

We were both virgin till marriage

Anyways now my sex life is falling apart bcoz i really dont know what sex sequence is

I have never discharged with sex , infact i dont get any good feelings during sex , mostly i dont feel nything at all , other than entering n rubbing of male part inside me . No feelings

I always get satisfied through clitoral stimulation

N for that foreplay/ clitoral play and then sex happens

My hubby thinks i should be getting satisfied through sex

Kindly guide me on this

I also used to had pain during sex untill my baby is born .

Alsoplz tell me how a good sex sequence / routine should be

I mean explain

What should be done after/ b4 wot?

I seriously want my hubby to be active with me in this , but lack of knowledge is making us apart in sexual relation.

Plz plz help