how to stay positive...

where do you find the power on staying positive after many years trying and hoping to conceive without result and seing friends around you getting pregnant and having babys ??it's not an easy job...however says that it is'is a liar....don't get me wrong...i am happy for each and every one of them and god bless them and their babys but at the same time the same questions pops in my head...'when my time will arrive???i am 34 and not getting younger and i am still here hoping and prying that i will be bless as well one day...all positive thoughts to all the women out there trying to concive and lots and lots of baby dust