Are all marriages miserable?

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Am I doing something wrong? Am I with the wrong person? Should I leave? Sometimes I find myself wishing he would cheat so I would have a "legit" reason to leave or that he would die so I don't have to deal with him anymore. Is this normal? Help!

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No. This is not normal. I would seek counseling if I were you.

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Being miserable is a legitimate reason for leaving.

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I’m in the same boat. But I don’t wish he would die. This is my 2nd marriage :( I’m beginning to think I’m ment to be alone forever

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I’ve had 2 of my best friends both end their marriages this month simply bc they weren’t happy and after trying to “make” it work for so long they decided it was just time to be happy.

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not all marriages are miserable but I think marriages are hard work and it takes effort to stay bonded with your partner. I would only consider divorce as a absolute last resort.

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No, this is not normal.  Find the root cause and work towards making it better not bitter 😌 I know it’s easier said than done but it’ll be worth it

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I definitely think you are worthy of happiness and you do not need a further reason to leave your husband. Marriage is supposed to feel warm and comforting, like a sanctuary; don’t settle for less.

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Why do you feel miserable? Is it something that can change? Ups and downs in marriage is normal, but continuous misery is not.

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You aren’t happy love. You need to leave :((

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Not normal to feel miserable.  I cannot imagine my life without my husband..of course we have our ups and downs, but I've never wanted to be without him.  I would seriously consider individual and/or couples counseling to decide if this is a relationship you should try to work out or not.

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