I feel...

Actually I haven't figured out what I feel apart from angry and I feel our wedding is planned behind my back.

I'm currently in Sweden going back to US in July getting married in September. 24 hours ago I was super happy about what my fiance and I had planned. And I was happy that us getting married in a park would mean no alcohol at the wedding.

Rehearsal dinner was going to be at our favorite Mexican restaurant and since this would mean driving I was hoping it would reduce alcohol intake.

Last night my fiance and his dad (who's in town for a visit) called on Skype and announced that father-in-law is paying for rehearsal dinner and moving it to the hotel. Father in law said it was better for tired travelers but I think the fact that the hotel has a bar was the deciding factor.

I'm pissed. Even though I don't think everything is decided yet I feel that I won't have a say in this as the majority of the guests are from his family and they don't seem to be able to do anything without alcohol.

And yeah I know a lot of people here don't understand the point of having a dry wedding. But I don't get why it is so hard to celebrate something without it.