Boyfriend adding random girls on Facebook?

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Boyfriend added random girls on Facebook recently and said it’s not a big deal to him at all even tho I don’t like it. Am I being controlling/insecure or am I justified in my complaints and concerns. Why add people if you don’t want their attention or to talk to them/appear available?! Esp attractive females I mean then what’s the point of Facebook then!

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let me ask you, what would he say if you started adding a bunch of random dude's to your Facebook? my husband has many female friends on Facebook, but not randoms

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I would find it very odd and I would be very upset. If it was girls he knew, it would be okay, but random girls is a hard no.

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I wouldn’t like that either personally

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Umm yeah that would bother me too. I’m not the least bit controlling but I’d seriously question my boyfriend if he did that. He’s obviously adding them because he either wants to look at them or talk to him. Either way, it’s unacceptable.

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Ask him if he would like it if you started adding random dudes and if he says no😒 start doing it see how he likes it.

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I’m having this same thing. He keeps adding a ton of random girls on facebook. Like literally 52 in the last few days and 95% of them have colored hair/goth aesthetic that he likes. He also adds some of them from insta or FB on Snapchat and the other day when we were together he was talking to one on snap for hours (that cosplays as the fictional character he happens to be in love with basically, Harley Quinn) and I got upset about it and he stopped (i think), the day after when I kept seeing him active like every 5 minutes on snap while he was at work but not answering texts for hours in between.  and I know he’s not the type to cheat but it opened up old scars where my exes cheated with girls they texted from social media and i explained that to him and it hurt a lot. Today was our 6 month and he’s never posted anything about me on his insta, no bio or anything, it looks like he’s single. He never posts anything about us anywhere and it worries me, I talked to him about it and he just said it was just because he hardly posts in general. But idk if I’m crazy or justified either 😫😫

Boyfriend adding random girls on Facebook?

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