I was 19 the first time I squirt. My boyfriend and I were at the beach alone, and it was super romantic and relaxing... I learned then that the key for me is to be completely relaxed and let it happen. Ever since then, squirting has become much easier and happens very quickly. My boyfriend LOVES it and laughs about how it took him 20 minutes to get me to squirt at the beach the first time, now it takes a minute or two... but I wish it didn't happen so quickly. I miss the thrill and temptation, but now there's almost none of that because it happens right away 😭 right now for example, I was playing with myself in bed, no toys or anything, and boom. It probably took less than a minute. WHY? Does anyone else have this problem?