help about s.o.? :(

so my boyfriend always has an attitude with me, never holds open doors, complains about me spending his money (last night it was over me wanting a 50 cent canned soda from the store) he barely touches me, says I make him uncomfortable when i try to touch or kiss him, here since he lost his awesome job and won't have sex with me, he gets an attitude anytime i ask. he never let's me go thru his phone. if I try to express how I feel he ignores me and keeps silent... the other night i told him it would make my night for him to shower with me and cuddle and he got a huge attitude and says he doesn't want too. ... am I wrong for wanting someone to want me? am I wrong for wanting to feel wanted? am I wrong for the so called bitching I do cos I feel so lonely?? I need some insight please.