Annoying sex counting issues

Hi ladies! My husband was away on work for part of this month so I have been EXTRA concerned with us having sex. It’s only happening once per week but when I mentioned it tonight he was like “are you sure? We totally had sex a few times last week, I thought!” Trust me, I’m the one who is paying attention! It was once.

I’m finding this both annoying and concerning now. It’s so hard to initiate sex without it seeming like a desperate attempt to get pregnant, which is a buzzkill. Mehh.

Has anyone else run into this? I’d love to hear your story.