am i bad

is it bad that i just made my "partner" cry in an arguement and i couldnt care less ....he just treats me like shit... tries to make me think im going crazy by saying he didnt say something when he did... belittles me ....treats me like a child ... controls me ...uses the fact he works and i dont (got a 7 month old baby) ....he asked if i felt like that then why am i still with him? well the answer to that is he wont go when i tell him to go in arguements... ive felt like this for ages ....also because of a family arguement he now wont talk to my mum but my mum wont talk to me unless i get rid of him and he says he dont want anything to do with them and he says that its upto him if our baby sees my mum or not which i no he wont allow so im stuck in the middle ....if i do something he dont like he "tells me off for doing it" (aka the treats me like a child) ive got bad anxiety too and he not helping with the way he is ....and many more things ive just had enough ...i told him i didnt want to be with him anymore and he goes ok thats sorted then (i guess he means he will go ...but i no he wont as he gone to bed now so he will go to work tomorrow and come back ...as i say controlling) i just feel like im walking on egg shells all the time ....i just wish he would go ive told him loads of times now but he just dont go